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What are the important things to consider while choosing a wife?

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Answered: Raymond BALOGUN 2 months ago

1. Choose someone who respects you

It is difficult to lead your life with someone who disrespects you, your personality or downplays your ambitions in life. Be sure to select a partner who will respect all aspects of your life.


2. Shared values

Having shared values reinforces the foundation of your relationship. Simple things such as consensus on the number of children you want or living within your means create a conducive environment for your relationship to thrive.


Having shared values reinforces the foundation of your relationship


3. Willingness to invest in the relationship

A relationship is a two-way street. Each party must be determined to make the relationship work. Select a person who allocates time for you and demonstrates concern for your needs.


4. An honest person

If a relationship is not enshrined in a culture of honesty and trust, it will definitely fail. To build a culture of honesty and trust in your relationship, open and genuine communication is important.


If a relationship is not enshrined in a culture of honesty and trust, it will definitely fail.


5. Consider a life partner keen on your life

A person willing to be in a long-term relationship with you will show genuine support for your ambitions and goals in life. Your potential life partner should be supportive of your plans to advance your career or pursue a worthy course.


6. One with an Ability to cope with some situations

Your family will always be a key support system in your life. They can tell if your prospective life partner is suitable or unsuitable for you. If your partner cannot cope with most of your family members, chances are he or she is not the right one.


If your partner cannot cope with most of your family members, chances are he or she is not the right one


7.Someone with a good intellectual level

If you are a high achiever and aggressive in pursuing your dreams, consider a person with the same attributes. Choosing a laid-back person could cause problems in your relationship. Both of you must view things and reason almost from the same standpoint.


8. Best of friend

Having a network of true friends provides perspective as you prepare for a relationship. Great friendships provide a basis for what love ought to be. They demonstrate that love should be purely based on choice as opposed to any need.


Having a network of true friends provides perspective as you prepare for a relationship


9. Anger management skills

A relationship involves two people with unique personalities. At times, you might have ugly arguments in which negative emotions are high. You might say hurtful things about one another. How your potential life partner reacts to anger reveals a lot about future reactions. If your prospective life partner cannot handle anger well, the situation can get out of control when you get married. Ability to forgive and forget


Closely related to anger management skills is your partner’s ability to forgive and forget. Love does not always revolve around sex, kissing and other intimate stuff. Arguments are deemed to occur in one way or another. Be keen to get a partner who does not keep dwelling on disagreements that happened in the past..


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Answered: Adeyemi Ebenezer 2 months ago

Wives are not meant to be choosed. They are meant to be found. Yes, every man has his own wife ordained by nature.

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Answered: Aigbe Marvellous 2 months ago

A God fearing, wife with good heart and someone that shares same value

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Answered: Grace Ilube 2 months ago
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Things to consider are many but special attention should be on very salient areas. First off the individual should be highly tolerant and forgive easily and this will ensure a stress free marriage. Ladies are sensitive and can sometimes be petty, but if their tolerance level is high enough they can easily overlook failings and hold no grudges. 

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Answered: Evelyn Aghimien 2 months ago

Beauty they say lies in the eyes of the beholder.  There are some important factors a man must consider before picking a wife, especially in the long run benefit. These are;
1) She must be God fearing. Ephesins 5:23 says that the husband is the head of the home. A woman that fear God will always respect her husband , because she knows he is the head of the home.
2) She must be gentle at heart. A woman that will give you peace.
3) Avoid a nagging woman or a woman that complains alot.
4) Avoid a lousy woman. A woman tbat have no sence of respect, shame,  who talks any how. Such a woman will definetely expose the man or whatever is happening at home publicly brcause she is lousy and have no shame.
5) She must be industrious, working or doing something to earn an income.
6) She must be good at domestic chores like washing , cooking , sweeping and making sure the home is tidy.
7) She must not be someone that gets angry at the slightest provocation.
8) She must be accomodating.
9) She must be a home builder.
10) Choose your friend..You both most undertand each other. Don't make the mistake of picking out of pity. e.t.c.
 Beauty and physical attributes will fade and eon't save the marriage but these factors above and many more  will do. It is said that " behind every succesful man, there is a woman and behind every unsuccesful man there is also a woman" So therefore, choose wisely.

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Answered: Jessie Priscilla 2 months ago

Simply let your heart choose

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Answered: Chinomso Amadikwa 2 months ago

I think when it comes to marriage everyone knows the qualities the look out for in a partner. But Generally I think understanding and being able to compromise at some point is paramount.

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Answered: Marvellous Ebi 2 months ago

The qualities you might need in wife might vary from one person to another's but thu key quality is someone who trusts you and share the same love you have for the person

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Answered: Wahab Oriade 2 months ago

she must have a good character,understanding, sup herb cooking abilities, intelligence and beauty

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