Marriage is the union between two persons coming together to become one body. It is an institution on it's own. Marriage is a sweet thing especially if you meet the right person. Therefore, for you to come into this great institution, you must not rush in out of desperation or soceital talk, otherwise you will definetely rush out. This is why the Bilble in proverbs 18:22 states that he that finds a wife find a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. When you choose the right partner, the following will happen: 1) There will be happiness, understanding, peace , prosperity and love in the home. 2) None of the couple will avoid their home. Whereever they are, they will want to rush back home because there is peace. 3) They will be healthy. (no high blood pressure) Hope you know that high blood pressure leads to hypertension and finally results to stroke. 4) Since they are healthy, they will live longer. 5)Fear will be eradicated. 6) No divorce and involvement of third parties because they understand themselves. 7) Their children will also be happy, they will be smarter and mentally they will be ok and healthy. 8) No nagging. 9) No domestic violence.e.t.c. These are some of the many reasons, some people consider while choosing a partner.The reverse will be the case if one makes a wrong choice. Thus it is very imperative to be wise and select the right person when you want to marry.
Getting a spouse is not the same thing as picking up a commodity on the shelf in the supermarket, it involves more than that. Nobody wants to live with the wrong person for the rest of his/her life or to be a divorcee and that is why proper care must be taken in the search for the right person.
Even the holy book says we should be careful for nothing...... rather with prayer and supplication let it known to our father. The truth is love not lust, patience, trust and understanding which is gathered with time in a relationship is what makes marriage work. Anybody can pretend to be what they are not to get married. but if you prayerfully seek the face the Lord for a life partner, you will get a loving and loyal one. Shalom